Thanksgiving?

The holidays are hard! I will start with another story from Grandma! I went to go visit her with Logan. She asked me what we were doing for thanksgiving, our family is constantly waiting until the last minute to plan things and I knew that my mom had bought a turkey but my dad was thinking that if there wasn't many people coming to just go out to eat! Well my grandma told me that my uncle, his girlfriend and my cousin were coming to dinner! And since we didn't have a plan yet she calls my mom and dad and declares that she will be inviting my uncle and crew over to her house for dinner and we could do whatever we want! Well little did she know I told my mom that we were expecting extra company and had all ready started to plan. But she didn't ask my mom what we were doing she just declared what she was doing! So then I had grandma over to watch Logan while I do some painting and she starts going off on how my dad made a comment about three years ago that he hated having a big house because we always had to have the holidays at our house! Well that's grandma's words! I'm pretty sure that she blew it out of proportion but she stated that she was hurt by it and that she wasn't coming over to the house anymore for holidays (even though she has came for the last three years). I proceeded to tell her how selfish she was being and that she needed to stop. We have Logan now and I don't want to have the family split for his first holidays! She looked at me like I punched her in the gut and stuck to it! We had separate dinners!
If that wasn't enough drama as I wrote in the last post Todd was drinking the night before and after lots of arguing I told him that I didn't want to spend the holiday with him so I took him to his dad's even though he is in California at the moment and on the way the arguing kept going and we broke up! I kicked him out, took his keys and his cell phone back (joint plans, I'm not going to get the bill for his! So yes thanksgiving! I'm thankful for my family (including crazy grandma) I'm thankful because I just might have the strength and will to leave Todd and remove my baby from an unstable environment, and even though it doesn't feel like it! Life could be worse! Happy thanksgiving everyone!